Parents whose children are homeschooled online are more stressed and more prone to anxiety or depression, according to a survey recently published by the American Educational Research Association. The most affected are mothers, being 27% more likely to take care of the children alone. School 9 spoke to five mums to find out how the pandemic period has affected them to the point where they have come to feel like they "can't do it anymore" or think of their children as hating them.
Parents with at least one child in online school are 19% more likely to experience anxiety than parents whose children learn in a classroom. The same parents are about 20% more likely to have depression or sleep problems.
The study to the American Educational Research Association shows that these mental health problems are found in all categories of families, regardless of economic status or social status.
Another analyze from the US shows that employed women are 27% more likely to take care of children alone compared to employed men.
Ana Maita, mother of two boys and activist for mothers' rights: "I felt like an airplane controller"
Ana Maita is the mother of two boys, aged 11 and 13, and the president of the "Mothers for Mothers" association. "Speaking of mothers taking care of children, right now I'm making food for them (laughs)," she says at the start of the phone interview.
Ana Măiță says that she is one of the privileged mothers, because she has a husband who is involved in the family, if you refer to Romanian standards. But even under these conditions, she believes that the pandemic has been unfair to her, as a mother and as a woman.
“I've been struggling with childcare and online school. That is, everything that means homework, internet connection, the operation of laptops or to be quiet in the house when one of the boys is in class, because they have different schedules", says Ana Măiță.
One day, his older boy, Filip, asked her to help him with an assignment for Physics. That was one of the moments when Ana felt overwhelmed by the situation.
“I looked in his Physics notebook and it looked kind of Chinese. I had nothing to do but call a teacher to work with him for a few hours. I was relieved to learn that the problem was not with the child, but with his teacher who did not explain it well enough. But, yes, it was awful to feel my limits as a parent", she says.